Samuel Widmer (born December 24, 1948) is a controversial Swiss physician, psychiatrist, psychotherapist and author, who uses psycholytic substances in therapy and has very liberal opinions on polygamy and free forms of love.
Widmer is a medical specialist for psychiatry and psychotherapy FMH (Foederatio Medicorum Helveticorum), employed in own medical practice. Lives and works in Lüsslingen near Solothurn (Schweiz).
He is a specialist for Psychedelic psychotherapy and owned a special permission by the BAG (Eidgenössisches Bundesamt für Gesundheitswesen), to use MDMA and LSD in psycholitic psychotherapy from 1988 to 1994. He is one of the founders of the ECBS (Europäisches Collegium für Bewußtseinsstudien) and the SÄPT – „Schweizerische Ärztegesellschaft für Psycholytische Psychotherapie“ (Another famous member: Peter Baumann (Psychiatrist), the also controversial suicide helper)
Widmer spoke during the Basel Psychotherapy Days (Basler Psychotherapietage). He led spiritual workshops, seminars in meditation and Tantra and meditation-voyages. His spiritual teachers were Jiddu Krishnamurti and Carlos Castaneda.
Widmer lives with two women and has children with both. A huge group of followers grew around Widmer and his wife Danièle Nicolet, including 80 adults and 55 children. Because of that, Widmer is suspected to be the leader of a cult or sect by the media.
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Widmer uses the term not only in its literal meaning, but in the meaning of a therapist abusing his (female) patient. As an opposite of these forms of “incest”, Widmer coined the term “respectable incest” (“ehrbarer Inzest”). That means: A father realizes his daughter’s waking up sexuality – like in a real incest. But because of fearing not to handle it adequately, he refuses her. She experiences a betrayal of confidence and love. This was a trauma, that nearly every woman of our society had to experience, being not less devastating than a really happened abuse.
According to Widmer, the basic requirement for a true contact to another human being is having contact openly and without prejudice or judging in general, not restricted by taboos, rules or forbiddings. This means: a true contact can only be, when basically everything is possible.
The basic assumptions of this theory is, that during a man’s development, “emotional layers” grow around the “essential core” of his mind. This model shall be imagined as an onion, whose core is the source of our zest for life. Around this core, a layer of pain and dolor grows throughout development, because of experienced and not worked up injuries. Because these feelings often are felt insufferable, another layer is built, the layer of defending emotions like anger, aggression, rage and defiance. For that, the child is often penalized with deprivation of love – another layer gets built, again: The layer of adaption, whose characteristics are boredom, weariness, senselessness and depression.
If a person wants to regain his ability to be happy or be happier, he had to work his way through these layers. Widmer uses legal psycholytic substances to support this way to the inner core.